I really should have shared this poem on International Transgender Remembrance Day for reasons I think explain themselves. It’s titled A Story Of Gender Dysphoria.I hope you enjoy the read.
A Story Of Gender Dysphoria
When you’re taking hormones
you’ve been medically prescribed
as a way to help you change your life
when your personal anthem is I will survive
you know you have gender dysphoria
When you’ve been for a psychiatric assessment
to talk about decades of self resentment
and the specialist sees you
in a place of contentment
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When you’ve had your feelings dismissed as a phase
When your body feels wrong like you’re trapped in cage
like you’re living your life in a permanent rage
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When you’ve written in your poems
about thoughts you’ve repressed
and you’ve asked the psychiatrist what they suggest
when you’re told that your brain
doesn’t match to your sex
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When you’re told you must live every day for a year
no matter the taunts the abuse , or the smears
and you still believe it’s a reason to cheer
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
On the bus at the bar or even at church
when you’re going to the football the the theatre or work
when there isn’t a place in the world
you can shirk
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
On the days you dispair and your not at your best
as your visitors dance with some unwelcome guests
even when you’re labelled as a man in a dress
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When the year is completed
and the treatment gets real
you know it was you who signed up
for this deal
when no words how amazing it feels
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When emotions kick in and the changes get started
as relatives grieve and your mum’s broken hearted
yet you feel fantastic as they mourn the departed
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When you’re waxing your legs
till the hair disappears
when you’re changing your shape
and things start to appear
when going back to your past life would give you the fear
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
When your looking the part and your confidence soares
and the truth of your life is no longer is ignored
and you didn’t get dressed up because you were bored
you know you’ve got gender dysphoria
You knew who you were from a very young age
and though elders claimed it was only a phase
by the words you eventually placed on the page
you knew you had gender dysphoria
So now I’ve explained things
I hope you can see
that the cage is now empty the bird has flown free
this change has made me the best I can be
and I know I have gender dysphoria
© Gayle Smith 2020